Here’s why Pete Davidson gets women and you don’t

Pete Davison is one of the most tantalizing celebrities in the world. In every way, he seems like a normal person. He’s basically just an average-looking stoner who complains a lot. In fact, in that way, he’s much like many of the people reading this article.

Here’s the difference: Pete is extremely famous, has a ton of money, and seems to be able to get any woman he wants. But how is he doing this?

The question has baffled men for years. But today, I’m going to answer it for you — or at least give you the best answer I can come up with. But first, let’s look at some of the women he has dated.

Pete Davidson somehow consistently pulls some of the most beautiful, impressive women in the world

Many average-looking celebrities end up finding beautiful women to date them — it’s not abnormal at all. That said, Pete seems to find women that are beautiful and in some cases, even more famous than he is. Here’s a short list, according to Page Six.

  • Emily Ratajkowski (Current)
  • Kim Kardashian
  • Phoebe Dynevor
  • Kaia Gerber
  • Ariana Grande

This isn’t even the full list, either. So what is it that makes the former SNL actor such an attractive man?

Pete Davidson is showing the world what the modern “hot guy” looks like

Before I get too deep into this, I must warn you that I am a straight man who is not attracted to Pete Davison. I am compiling information from women he has dated and my own girlfriend, who talks about Pete much more than I am comfortable with. And it all revolves around the female gaze.

For context on the upcoming part of this article, here’s a small subsection about the female gaze, according to SocioMix’s Daila Ayala:

Essentially, the female gaze is the way that women are portrayed through the eyes of a woman instead of a man. Through the eyes of a woman, women are seen as people with feelings and intelligence. The focus isn’t necessarily on what the eye can see but on what the heart can feel.

Most men do not understand anything about the female gaze

Men often strive to be as attractive as possible to women but rarely ask themselves the most important question — what actually makes a man attractive to a woman?

Most men will think that things like muscles and clean-cut hairstyles attract women. Think of guys like Ryan Reynolds, Channing Tatum, or Brad Pitt. These are conventionally attractive men and, in fairness, women do think they’re attractive.

But not everybody can look like these men. Very, very few people do.

In fact, these aren’t even the men that are currently thriving in the dating scene. The younger generation of women isn’t into these guys. Instead, the men who are attracting women are guys like Timothee Chalamet, Tom Holland, and Pete Davidson. None of these men are particularly “manly.” They look like guys you might have had in 7th-period math in high school.

And that’s just the thing.

Being “manly” is based on the male gaze. Men think attractive men should be muscular and chiseled. Stop thinking like this. Men need to begin to follow the female gaze if they want to attract women.

Here’s a quote from Emily Ratajkowski, a supermodel, on why Pete Davidson is attractive.

“He’s vulnerable. He’s lovely. His fingernail polish is awesome. He looks good!”

A supermodel is telling you that a man is attractive because he has painted nails and is vulnerable with his emotions. Stop spending four hours at the gym every day and groom yourself for once. Women don’t want a sweaty recreation of a character from Die Hard — they want somebody that they actually like.

It’s the same thing with every woman who speaks about Davidson. They rave about his sensitivity and general attitude toward women, which revolves around respect. Here’s what Kim Kardashian said about him.

“Pete was like, ‘Babe, let’s go get some ice cream at Thrifty,’ and I was like, ‘Oh my god, you are making me so f—ing horny.’ Rite Aid? Thrifty? It was literally one of the best nights of my life.”

BE NORMAL. BE OPEN. BE FUNNY. It’s really not that complicated.

Here’s what Pete has said about how he treats women in relationships.

“My love language, when I’m in a relationship, is I treat the person I’m with like a princess. I try and go as above and beyond as possible, because that’s what you’re supposed to do. If you’re in a relationship with someone, you’re just supposed to make that person feel as special as possible.”

Treat women well. Be sensitive. Stop trying to be so manly, it’s cringy.