RHOP: Candiace is a walking, talking, breathing paradox

THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF POTOMAC -- "Here Comes the Bride" Episode 402 -- Pictured: Candiace Dillard Bassett -- (Photo by: Tasos Katopodis/Bravo)
THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF POTOMAC -- "Here Comes the Bride" Episode 402 -- Pictured: Candiace Dillard Bassett -- (Photo by: Tasos Katopodis/Bravo)
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THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF POTOMAC — Pictured: (l-r) Chris Bassett, Candiace Dillard — (Photo by: Larry French/Bravo)

Scenario one

The first scenario in question is the argument sequence near the beginning of Season four’s episode ten outside of their restaurant between Candiace and her husband Chris. She wasn’t willing to hear him out, something she has accused her mother of.

She constantly screamed and talked above him without giving him the opportunity to explain himself, which she does to people often and something else that she accuses her mother of. She also rudely tried to divert away from the situation by threatening to “move him” on her own away from her vehicle, a physical act of aggression, such as the one committed against her by her mother and her handbag.

While there were probably a few more, these few yet more than apparent instances are vivid examples of how Candiace expects to be treated one way when she treats other people the way she doesn’t want to be treated.

Candiace seemed to have a realization in the last episode that it is possible she is part of the problem.  She said she was arguing with all of the people in her life, her mom, her husband, her friends, but the only common denominator here is Candiace herself.