Real Housewives of New York girl code seems to be a thing of the past

THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF NEW YORK CITY -- Season:8 -- Pictured: (l-r) Luann de Lesseps, Julianne Wainstein, Bethenny Frankel, Carole Radziwill, Ramona Singer, Dorinda Medley, Sonja Morgan -- (Photo by: Mathieu Young/Heidi Gutman/Bravo)
THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF NEW YORK CITY -- Season:8 -- Pictured: (l-r) Luann de Lesseps, Julianne Wainstein, Bethenny Frankel, Carole Radziwill, Ramona Singer, Dorinda Medley, Sonja Morgan -- (Photo by: Mathieu Young/Heidi Gutman/Bravo)

It seems that girl code is constantly being brought up at The Real Housewives of New York but it seems that none of the ladies know what it means.

The Real Housewives of New York ladies have often talked about girl code. It seems that it’s something that they all value, but something that they have a hard time sticking to. The idea of the girl code surfaced when Luann de Lesseps announced that she was dating Thomas D’Agostino. Ramona Singer and Sonja Morgan were shocked as they had their past issues with him. While Ramona had gone on several dates with him and he had written R+T with a heart around it, Sonja dropped an even bigger bomb. She had been sleeping with him on and off for about 10 years.

And yet, Luann felt that Thomas’ relationships with her Real Housewives of New York co-stars meant nothing. Ramona and Sonja felt she was breaking girl code because she was dating a man they had been with, but de Lesseps didn’t care what happened “before Luann” came into Thomas’ life. But now that Luann de Lesseps is learning that Ramona tried to get into his New Year’s Eve party, she feels that girl code has been violated.

All this talk about girl code has some people confused. Why is Luann calling attention to the broken girl code when she was accused of doing the same thing?

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As some people pointed out on Twitter, it seems that the Real Housewives of New York girl code only applies to the person who is hurt. Of course, this could explain why some of these friendships are always up in the air.

What do you think of Luann de Lesseps’ comments about girl code? Are you surprised that girl code is being discussed so much on The Real Housewives of New York?